Relationship Reflection Prompts
Every relationship is made up of multiple layers. These prompts are a gentle way to notice how yours feels across a few key areas.
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• Do I feel emotionally seen and understood in this relationship?
• Can I share my inner world without feeling like I’m too much?
• When I’m vulnerable, do I feel met with care or distance?
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• Do I feel comfortable and safe in our physical connection?
• Does physical closeness feel mutual and wanted?
• Do our needs around touch and intimacy feel acknowledged?
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• Do we value similar things when it comes to life, family, and the future?
• Do I feel aligned with the direction we’re moving together?
• When our values differ, do we approach that with respect?
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• Do I feel heard when something matters to me?
• How do we handle disagreement or tension?
• After conflict, do I feel closer, distant, or unresolved?
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• Do I feel supported in my growth and responsibilities?
• Do we feel like a team when life gets hard?
• Can I rely on this person when I need help or encouragement?
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• Does this relationship allow me to grow into myself?
• Do we support each other’s personal development?
• Do I feel more expanded or more limited over time?
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• Do we laugh and enjoy everyday moments together?
• Does being together feel easy, playful, or nourishing?
• Do I feel connected in the small, ordinary moments?
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• Do I feel emotionally safe and secure in this relationship?
• Can I trust this person’s words and actions to align?
• Do I feel respected, protected, and considered?
There’s no need to answer every question. Notice what feels easy to reflect on, and what feels tender. Both are information.